I personally do not support stereotypes. All they do is label individuals unfairly and characterize them according to their sex, age, race, or nationality. Our society often forces us to act according to stereotypes, which results in lack of self identity and freedom. A woman is automatically perceived as a great cook because she is seen as someone who should excel in domestic affairs. A man is seen as someone who should not show any emotions because that would challenge his machismo. These are just a few examples; the list goes on.

Because our society is becoming more progressive, several positive changes are occurring. My cousin has challenged the stereotype that a woman should be a housewife rather than a professional. In Pakistani society, women are expected to get married and provide children. They are not seen as individuals who can benefit society and make a difference. It is amazing that thousands of women, including my cousin, have broken this stereotype and are professionals. Women have finally decided to become financially independent and have gained importance in Pakistani society, which once looked down upon them and simply called them someone’s daughter or someone’s wife.

By gaining their self identity, women have shown that they are no less than men and that there can be gender equality in today’s world. Not only is my cousin doing exceptionally well as a lawyer, but she is also an inspiration for the rest of us women that we should stand up, voice our opinion for what is right, and not consider ourselves inferior than men. She has definitely opposed the image that media portrays of women being in the kitchen, washing clothes or endorsing the latest washing powders or cooking oils, while the men go to work. She has shown that a woman can excel not only as a mother or a cook but also as a professional who is capable of achieving a lot in our society.

Since childhood, we have been told that the color pink represents girls, whereas blue depicts boys; that Barbies are meant to be played by girls, while cars and guns are supposed to be played with boys. We are taught that girls are supposed to be sensitive, thin, and pretty, while guys are meant to be macho and heartless. If we want to make current and upcoming generations successful, we should refrain from continuing such stereotypes.